Can it even be called “Part Two” when “Part One” was two months ago? I don’t want to think about it.
Let’s instead focus on the wedding of the year. This wedding was spectacular for a myriad of reasons: it was the marriage of one of my best, closest friends I’ve known since I was 13, it took place at an extraordinary farm on the same road as the farm my parents lived on during their first year of marriage (I mean, seriously!), and it was on July 26 — the twins’ first birthday! All of this just further reinforces our life-long friendship connection.
Plus it was gorgeous. But when this lady is the star of the show, isn’t that obvious?
The ceremony was a Catholic mass, which was beautiful and solemn and celebratory all at once. The bride’s brother sang, her sister served as maid of honor, and her parents radiated joy the entire day (that’s her happy mom Anne to the left in the photo).
Plus this was the jaw-dropping cathedral.
Amy married Brian, who you may remember from Italy, and he is one of the funniest and most generous people I know. Now, he’s also one of the luckiest.
Side note: that dress. I cannot even. It is exquisite.
During the ceremony my family took care of the babies, one of whom fell fast asleep. Hint: it wasn’t the one in the tiny tan suit, it was the one in the tiny Parisian dress.
Their bridal party was top-notch — entirely supportive, hugely fun, and, if I may say, uncommonly attractive — check us out just working it during the photo sesh:
They couldn’t have been more welcoming to this lone bridesmaid from the west, to the point that I’m keeping in touch with a few of them…this bride has great taste in friends.
Plus we really excelled at kicking back.
The reception site was a completely updated and renovated farm. It had a gorgeous hundreds-year-old farmhouse where the ladies got ready, a refurbished barn for the dinner and dancing, and picture-perfect grounds with lush weeping willows and a peaceful pond.
I mean, look at that magazine-worthy barn.
Amy is probably the most thoughtful bride I’ve ever encountered. She told her photographer in advance to take family photos of us because it was the twins’ birthday. We couldn’t believe it and we’re so thrilled with these priceless memories we’ll always treasure.
A little back story: last year, the babies were scheduled for induction on July 25, and I was so wrapped up in that it didn’t even occur to me that the following day was the one-year-prior-to-the-wedding day. Once the babies were born on that day instead, I think it took a full day afterward, in my drug-addled state, to turn to my mom and say, “Wait, what day is Amy’s wedding? Is it today next year? Were the babies born on her wedding day?” And as I said it I knew. And I felt a mix of new-mom joy and anxiety, with an exclamation-ridden thought train that looked like this:
“Oh my gosh Amy and Brian and the twins are going to share this day forever!!”
“Amy will be with the twins on their birthday!”
“I’m a bridesmaid so I will be busy the whole day…away from my babies on their first birthday…I had these children hours ago and I’m already feeling like the worst mom ever for missing their birthday!”
“It doesn’t matter, this is her WEDDING day! FAR more important than a million birthdays!”
“We can just have their birthday party the week before! This isn’t a big deal at all!”
“I can’t be away from them on their first birthday! I am just going to pretend this isn’t happening until it is.”
“I hope this doesn’t occur to Amy so she doesn’t worry about it! It’s NOT her problem, she’s the BRIDE!”
You can see I didn’t over-think it at all.
Well, I shouldn’t have given it any thought. Amy humbled me to my knees with a mini-birthday party right in the middle of the reception.
Her parents announced that it was Henry and Arden’s birthday and out came custom cupcakes and the entire room of guests sang happy birthday. I was so moved, so totally overwhelmed, I did a lot of the thrilled-while-half-crying face. A lot.
Who’s the luckiest boy in the room? Usually the groom. In this moment, Henry.
In a moment I’ll always remember, Mike lifted Arden high in his arms and she did what she always does when he does that — she kicked her legs in unison and we yelled “swim swim swim!” while she went crazy with happiness. To our surprise, everyone started yelling “swim swim swim!” and she just kicked her little heart out.
My heart was so full. Standing next to the new Mrs. Fuga, surrounded by her wonderful family and mine, amazed that we’ve been friends since she was 12 and I was 13 — and here she was yielding the spotlight on her biggest day to celebrate my precious babies. It was just overwhelming and so undeserved.
After dinner…the dancing, which was phenomenal. It may be worth your time to inquire about this DJ. He killed it.
(Bridal party entrances are key.)
Weddings with family are everything.
What a spectacular wedding filled with an enormous amount of love.
And I have this girl to thank. Seventeen years and counting, my friend! Cheers to you on marrying the love of your life. Thank you for allowing us to share in your joy.